Is Mary Tyler Moore too good to be true? (1974)

Note: This article may feature affiliate links to or other companies. Qualifying purchases made via these links may earn us a small commission at no additional cost to you. Find out more here.

Actress Mary Tyler Moore c1974

Is Mary Tyler Moore too good to be true (1974)

Is Mary Tyler Moore too good to be true?

by Joyce Maynard

She’s a gum chewer, a chain smoker, and an obsessive dieter. Outside of that, she’s perfect. Everybody loves her, but no one really knows her. “If there were anything wrong in her life,” a close friend says, “she would be the last to inflict it on anyone.”

Mary Tyler MooreWhen I first talked with Mary Tyler Moore, she had not yet separated from her husband, Grant Tinker. “I’m totally happy,” she told me then. “My life is perfect. I guess it’s the old Puritan ethic — the idea that everything evens up in the long run. I keep waiting for some giant sandbag to fall.”

We spent time together on the set of her television series, but never at the big new house in Malibu she and Grant had moved into a short time before, a house filled with Emmy awards and 20 needlepoint pillows made by Mary Tyler Moore herself. (She showed them to the architect and told him to build a house to match.)

ALSO SEE: The Mary Tyler Moore Show theme song & lyrics (1970-1977)

Not many people see the house, and I am sure that if they come, they don’t just drop in casually.

The show’s cast members are all friends, whose birthdays Mary marks in a special book and takes pains to celebrate, whose lost dogs she worries about, whose children’s pet frogs she examines on the set, and someday, I am certain, there will be a party at the Malibu house, and Mary will be gracious and welcoming and sociable, but she will not, I’m equally sure, drink too much champagne and take a friend aside and tell her secrets.

“My husband and I are very private people,” she said, not in the way some stars announce they’re Very Private People as a prelude to Telling All.

And now her husband has moved out of the big new house on Malibu Beach, and Mary Tyler Moore is more private than ever.

MORE  Take the day off to see Ferris Bueller (1986)

Actress Mary Tyler Moore c1974

More stories you might like

See our books

One Response

  1. Mary will always turn the world on with her smile.
    She’s always taken those nothing days, and made them all seem worthwhile.
    With each glance and every little movement Mary still shows it.
    Yes, Mary, you have made it after all.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Pin It on Pinterest

join the fun

Don’t miss out on the latest and greatest vintage stuff!

Sign up for our free weekly newsletter here.